A sufi center is also known as a Dergah, literally a place of the threshold. This threshold, or doorway, refers to
the Infinite, to the Creator. The sufi center is a place where the followers (murids) try to live as sincere believers
serving each other and the one who represents the Holy Prophet, the sheykh and ultimately to serve the Creator.
It is a place where they worship, work, and rest together, imitating the lifestyle of the first sufis, the People of the Porch,
(Ahli Suffa). They lived an extremely simple lifestyle and their sole aim was to be in association with and in
proximity to the Holy Prophet. That tradition has continued for over 1,400 years.
The center is open to all- "Come, come whoever you are...ours is a caravan of love" beckons Rumi. Interestingly, caravan in Rumi's original poem is dergah, a sufi center. Our sheykh said, quoting the late wife of our grandsheykh, Hazret Hajja Ana, "Welcome to those who come, farewell to those who leave." There is no compulsion to come, to stay, or to go.

Edeb, Ya Hu!- Have Manners!- is prominent everywhere, reminding all to have and display the best of manners. Good manners is the perfection of faith as it entails wisdom, patience, awareness, and humility. Manners here refer to the subtle but vital prophetic tradition of putting others before yourself and sharing what you have with others even if it is just a piece of bread.
Simplicity in lifestyle marks the sufi center, a lifestly close to nature with very few modern distractions. Followers tend to the usual responsibilites of a farm, besides cooking and cleaning for each other they also tend sheep, raise bees, feed the chickens, milk the cows, train the donkey, walk the dogs, clean after the cats, plant seeds, harvest vegetables, etc. etc. etc. Close contact with the natural mountainous surroundings, coupled with close contact with the animals help to balance the energies in our bodies, recalibrating our physical selves with nature and de-stressing our spirits. As it is a farm, work is constant but mostly light, everyone is expected to engage in physical labor especially during the day. It is a common sufic axiom that service to others is more sacred than personal worship.
Every work done at the center has to begin with the holy name of our Creator and must be done with love and sincerity. Any work done with compulsion or anger is unacceptable.
The usual day begins with the dawn worship and while waiting for the sun to rise the followers share those few holy
moments with the sheykh where he may give a discourse, questions may be asked to him, or he may listen and interpret
dreams.
Dreamwork is an important aspect of a follower's journey. Some chose to rest after sunrise, to meditate, or to
start working. The day continues with work around the farm punctuated with noon and afternoon prayers. All work ceases at
sunset. The followers join the sheykh for the evening prayers, dinner is served and a silent remembrance ceremony is held.
After that tea and sweets are served while the sheykh continues his discourses.
Live classical Ottoman music is played on the oud, poetry often recited and some may choose to whirl. Humor is extremely
important in the center and often the sheykh would joke and laugh with us or at us, to increase our self-awareness.
The year is filled with holy days and nights, festivals, and commemorations and they are observed at the center. Visitors from all over the world periodically make their visit here, while those who do not live in the center visit during the weekends. All desire to associate with the sheykh and other followers and to disassociate themselves from the world.
The job and responsibilites of the sheykh can not be enumerated or imagined- he heals those with spiritual, psycological, or emotional illnesses, trains others to help him and prepare us all for the coming events of these End of Times.
Friday prayer at the Nakshibendi Hakkani Dergah in Cyprus - March 14, 2008
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